46 Girls On The One Thing They Wish Guys Would Do In Relationships

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We all have really warped views about what a relationship ought to look like — whether it’s from Hollywood, your friends’ seemingly perfect relationships, or fairytale ideals, it’s easy to get caught up in grand, sweeping gestures of what guys and girls “should” be doing. But often, it’s the little things that leave you with stars in your eyes and make you remember that person. I polled 46 women on those little things they wish the guy in their life or their future would do — and it turns out the things they’re asking for aren’t 5 karat rings.
1. “I know this is dumb, but the other day, my boyfriend actually commented on one of my Instagram posts and engaged with me on social. He doesn’t really use Instagram and rarely likes posts, so I feel special whenever he makes that little gesture.” — Callie, 22
2. “I love it when my boyfriend leaves a sweet, little note for no reason whatsoever. It just let’s me know he’s thinking about me.” — Kelsey, 23
3. “It’s the simple things that count, and so many guys overlook this. Just a back rub or breakfast or running your hands through my hair in the morning. Tell me I look pretty when I get dressed up.” – Kayla, 27
4. “I love it when he favs and retweets some of my stuff. I just wish he’d do it more often.” — Hannah, 25
5. “Ask if I’m free on Friday, tell me you have reservations at 7, tell me what the dress code is, come pick me up, I will be swooning for a week. That’s all it takes.” – Michelle, 28
6. “I think it’s the sweetest thing when my boyfriend says cute things to me while I’m half asleep. It’s like it doesn’t matter if I hear it or not, he just has to say it.” — Kate, 21.
7. “Every time I see a guy on the subway with flowers, I wish I had someone to do that for me. I can buy flowers myself, but the old-school gesture always makes me want to tell that stranger with the flowers good job.” — Stefanie, 25
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Let me tell you from firsthand lesbian experience: the kinds of things I hear on a somewhat daily basis are frankly hilarious. Whether I’m letting someone know “my deal,” talking about my relationships or just hearing you say an offhand comment (that you don’t realize is highly offensive), believe you me: I’m filing what you said away to laugh about with my friends later.
Even when I was polling a few friends to find out what things they wish would retire from daily conversation about lesbians, we started laughing because all of us are hearing the exact same things . Is this a nationwide phenomenon? Are lesbians like unicorns? Do people really not know how to interact with one?
Let this be your guide on how NOT to have a Successful Interaction With A Lesbian. I know we’re intimidating but honestly we only want to have normal conversations with you without getting secondhand embarrassment.
Full disclosure: I’ve heard all the below statements more than once, sometimes by strangers but more often from people I actually know.
1. “But you don’t look gay.”
I wish just one person could actually explain to me how one “looks” gay? What do I say to this? Sorry, I didn’t wear my lesbian uniform today.
2. “So you must like really butch/feminine girls.”
If I look “girly,” people seem to think I’m into masculine girls. If I look “butch,” they think I’m into lipstick lesbians. Either way, you seem to think one of us is “the man,” which is a little weird considering we’re both women.
3. “I thought you had a boyfriend before.”
I didn’t realize you were keeping tabs on this,but thanks for checking in. Trust me, at one point I was as confused as you are right now. Let’s move on.
4. “So you’ll have a threesome with me and my girlfriend?”
Dear lord, no. No, no, no. Your girlfriend and I are just going to go over here. Alone. Bye.
5. “Wow there’s a lot of girls in this bar.”
Yeah, there are. You’re in a lesbian bar, friend. Next time use your context clues; don’t just look in the windows and think it’s your lucky day. The sign outside is in rainbow colors. I’m not sure we could be anymore clear.
6. “You and your friend seem really close.”
That’s my girlfriend, but thanks. We are pretty close; that’s why we’re dating.
7. “You’re so sweet! Too bad I’m not gay.” OR “I wish you were a guy, I’d totally date you.”
I’m really flattered, but you confuse me. Do you want to date…? If so, let me know. You sound like you’re missing out.
8. Any and all questions about scissoring:
Please leave me alone. It exists. No, I don’t want to explain it to you.

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